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So after a heated response to my last blog(and not from the person it was geared towards) I have decided on a short but sweet rebuttal...if there was something in you that said hey that could be me in that blog then maybe your marriage isn't so hot either... I did not intend to insult or offend anyone.. No one out there has a perfect life and if they say they do then they're lying... I strive every day to be a better wife, mother, friend, daughter, etc.. sometimes I succeed..sometimes I fail miserably... I sometimes forget to be as respectful as I could be..sometimes I'm tired and I snap or esp right now my hormones get the best of me... it's normal to sad or angry or hurt some of the time! It is NOT acceptable to be these things most of the time though! I've snapped at my husband before and I've apologized afterwards b/c I wouldn't want to be treated that way... but when constant disrespect goes on day after day and not just an episode or two it becomes clear to me that help needs to be sought by the offender... couples fight..you can't live with someone day in and day out and not have ups and downs... but you have to remember why you married this person... what made you fall in love.... why you chose this one or God chose him or her for you... there is a reason! If you were offended by what I said maybe you should take a good look at yourself! If I were reading a friend's blog and I had read that- there's nothing in it that would've struck a chord.. there's no trace of me in it b/c I've worked hard at who I've become as a human being... and I like who I am whether there are those of you out there that disagree with me or not... we're not all going to like each other.. we're not always going to agree and get along... sometimes we're going to say hurtful things that have so much truth but need to be said... but take my words for what they are.. a wakeup call...
I had a friend quite a few years back that after hearing me lament(once again) about the sad state of my now former marriage tell me that we are the only ones that control our destinys... I now know that to be true... we can control how we act...who we become... we only make excuses for our bad behavior in the meantime... I had to grow up and take control of my happiness and I'm so glad that I did.. I'm the happiest I've ever been.. I'm more in love than ever... and the future is so bright! SO again if you were offended that was not my intention but if it made you realize something was wrong then maybe that's a good thing!
Also Congrats to the O's I was right... Until the next time ciao