Finally...

Well the waiting is finally over... My daughter arrived at 3:39 am Oct 25 and I have to say is the most beautiful thing alive (ok besides my husband and son).. she has dark hair with red streaks in it and the most gorgeous complexion...I am, I admit, totally biased! Her name is Patton RHYS (not Grace moron) and her middle name is in honor of her Welsh grandad... Ok so that's the good... the bad now... of course who do I run into as I'm getting off the elevator at the OB ward the day I'm getting induced? That's right folks... my ex-husband and the lunatic he married! Of course, she muttered something about Jesus Christ (I'm flattered that she thinks I'm that special) and I laughed all the way down the hall.. even running into the idiot duo couldn't ruin my morning!! One would hope that she was there to have her tubes tied so that there are no more of them out there...but who knows..maybe she was there to bring me flowers...lol...
I did find out a few things recently... that when people are not who they seem that others will find out the truth!! If you keep your mouth shut and let people self destruct on their own in the end it's a better for everyone(except of course the person self-destructing)... when I came to Columbus 2 years ago I knew things weren't going to be easy with my ex right around the corner...I didn't really have too many problems with him(besides the obvious) but there were others involved that I didn't look forward to seeing at all.. I found out someone was reading my email and imitating my life and I couldn't understand why... I mean I'm not a bad person but there's really nothing too special about me... it's true I have a fantastic husband, a nice home, beautiful kids but come on there's a lot of people out there like that (ok at least people I know)... I didn't and don't to this day understand why I would be the object of someone's time, effort, and attention! Why would someone join the clubs I joined, read my email(and blog), drive past my house, and make every effort possible to know as much about me as possible? Talk about lunatic stalker central... and this isn't me jumping to conclusions..all these things which I suspected have been confirmed by others..others that are sick of the lies..others that hate the drama..others that have gotten to know that I'm not such a bad person that certain persons make me out to be! My husband and I decided to turn down orders to Italy b/c after we started telling people that's where we were going guess who decided to go there? Yeah that's right.. the idiot duo... it was all for the best though b/c we found out we were pregnant, my brother died, and being closer to home was much more of a priority...besides Italy with a baby wouldn't be as much fun as before!! Others can learn that the hard way...
So what's the point of today's blog you might ask? The point is this... certain people need to get lives of their own... they need to focus on their shaky marriages... they need to stop trying to fill others shoes... they need to quit making up lies about their lives and mine... they need to move on as I have tried! They need to learn to be a good mom and wife and FRIEND to others...they need to stop obsessing about people they don't know(namely me, my husband, certain ex army captains) and the past and I would recommend LOADS of therapy(although some may say she's beyond help).. so I'd like to end this right here... no more blogging for me at this site..no more allowing someone personal access into my life...no more feeding the animal... buh bye psycho bitch... parting is such sweet sorrow NOT oh and I hope that all the bad things you've ever done and said about me come back to bite you in your big ugly ass....